I am also financially responsible with a good job and my own home. I'm thinking you should be yourself so you won't have to wonder when to bring it up, and you will find the wonderful man who will love you for you. I think one way to find a partner who has true personality compatibility with you is to meet them while sharing things you like to do together. Some people won't consider a partner who already has kids.
With origins dating back to the 1930s, the annual race at Mount Greylock attracts intrepid backcountry skiers and snowboarders to challenge themselves and each other on the Class A trail down the state's highest peak.